A Fast Way To Ensure You Lose Your Team
A Fast Way To Ensure You Lose Your Team
By chris danilo on Aug 01, 2018 05:00 am
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“You’re not acting like you want to be here!”
“We’re leaving right now!”
“Well then get your act together and let’s go!”
I unplugged my headphones and listened more closely.
I was running in the park and overheard a mom yelling at her daughter.
Her daughter was obviously exhausted and had no interest in continuing on, yet Mom demanded that she keep running and keep up.
Let me first say: I am NOT a parent and this is not about judging people.
The reminder that I experienced in this moment, though, was about something related to this outrage.
There are a lot of similarities between parenting and managing, so stick with me here for a sec.
If you need to tell, demand, or bully someone to get your way or make your point: you’re a jerk.
Thats it.
Steve Jobs is one—but I talk about him all the time
Jeff Bezos is another one, for installing the ruthless, cut-throat culture at Amazon.
What is success if it means hurting the people on whose backs your project is built?
You have to make your own ethical decision of whether or not the ends justify the means.
Just consider how much more productive happy and fulfilled people are. Consider the reduction in turnover. Consider the extra hours they’ll gladly stay because they believe in something.
2 Minute Action:
Recognize someone right now.
It can be in person (always better), or by text/phone.
Be specific.
“Great job” and “atta boys” will not be effective.
Example of specific:
“Bill, when you responded to Susie in that meeting by saying you’ll stand by the suppliers, I just wanted to high give you from across the table. It’s that kind of response that really encapsulates our company values and moves the needle on sales. Really proud of you.”
People who are happy, fulfilled, and recognized will fight by your side to the death.
You can’t buy that—you can only coach it.
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